Dog’s nightmare drive: The startling event that left us both shaken
I had just picked up Bolt (Yes, after the Disney movie. I was an excited 13 year old when I got my pup, sue me!) from his monthly vet consultation and grooming sesh.
Little did I know we were about to live one of the most horrific experiences together.
We were driving down a busy street, as we always do after my boy gets a bath.
As unbiased as any dog dad is, he looked particularly perfect with his freshly groomed white Maltese fur.
Suddenly, he started panting faster than usual. I thought he might be thirsty.
But the panting got worse.
This didn’t seem like typical thirsty behavior - confusion set in.
I figured we just had to wait the 5 minutes until we got home so he could drink some water.Turns out, I was wrong.
Out of nowhere. He started barking uncontrollably.
He wouldn’t stop. Bark after bark.Continuous, loud, and piercing.
I felt so powerless as I was driving and trying to calm him down.
My heart started beating faster.
I could feel his fear with every bark.
I could tell he was suffering.
To add to my concern? He had an accident in the car. Definitely abnormal behavior.
I spotted a safe place to park so he could walk around a bit.
As soon as I opened the door… he jumped out and went to the grass.
While still barking, he stood there in the same spot.
I got close to him and started comforting him.
My Bolt was shaking.
I was so worried and confused with tears in my eyes.
As soon as I wrapped my arms around his body, he started to calm down.
Steadily, he barked less and less, and the piercing barks turned into helpless cries as he finally calmed down, and I gently pet him all over...
What had just happened?
We went back to the vet, and that was the first time I heard it: "He had an anxiety attack."
I’d never imagined Bolt having an anxiety attack.
"It’s usually caused by changes in the environment, social interactions with new dogs, or simply aging," the vet continued.
"Stress and anxiety most likely accumulated, and his body demanded a response."
After we left, I couldn’t help but feel like a horrible parent.
I felt so negligent.
Was this my fault? Had I been so caught up in my own life? Was I not caring for him as well as I used to?
I knew I needed a solution ASAP.
That was about a year ago.
Since that day, we’ve managed to prevent any similar episodes thanks to these 4 super easy, vet recommended hacks that have helped keep my best friend at ease
No more anxiety attacks for your furry friend (or for you)
Mental Stimulation and Exercise
Make sure your dog gets daily exercise and regular mental stimulation.
This helps them expend energy, stay healthy, and happy.
After his first episode, my vet recommended giving him a safe, durable and digestible chew. An easy and affordable hack that works for both dogs and dog parents.
I tried some options which he gnawed through way faster than I expected.
I didn’t want to choose the cheaper alternatives because they were filled with chemicals that upset Bolt’s stomach and could pose serious health threats, and I wasn’t willing to take that risk.
I ended up choosing all-natural yak chews from Mighty Paw.*
Bolt is obsessed. He stays calm, and is fully engaged licking and playing with the chew while I’m working.
Not only does it help his anxiety, but they’re super durable, and have added health benefits which is an extra perk that sold it for me.
Once they are small enough, I soak them in water and microwave them for a minute which turns them into a cheese puff. Delicious, and waste free.
He loves them.
Create a Safe Space
Provide your dog with a comfortable, quiet space where they can retreat. This could be a cozy bed or a crate with blankets and toys.
Bolt has the freedom to wander around the house all he wants.
But we’ve created a designated space just for him.
It’s a corner in the living room where everything is familiar and safe.
Even our dogs need some “me time”!
Avoid Punishment
Negative punishment can exacerbate anxiety and fear, making the situation worse.
If your dog experiences an anxiety attack for the first time, it’s scary for both of you. Using negative reinforcement and punishment during an unfamiliar time could turn the most loving pup into an aggressive dog.
Patience and understanding are your best allies when dealing with a highly stressful situation you might not fully understand.
While basic, these 4 tools have proven to be so powerful to help Bolt stay calm, cool, and collected.
Managing your dog's anxiety is a journey filled with love, patience, and understanding.
By implementing these best practices, you can create a safe and nurturing environment helping them feel secure.
Remember, every dog is unique, so tailor these strategies to fit your dog's specific needs and triggers.
Your dedication and care will make all the difference in keeping your best friend happy and healthy.
Stay pawsitive!
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